Rant.

Much like everyone else, I've watched the economy tank over the last few years and have had my own hardships and struggles to deal with - some related to the economic decline, but most not. I've had to take a long, hard look at myself and realize that there was a LOT that needed to change.

I have come to the following two conclusions:

- Most of us are whiners. On one hand, I understand the fear of running out of unemployment all too well. I can also comprehend the struggle of those who have families to support in these tough times. Taking all these things into consideration, I still believe that most people in this country live *well* beyond their means (as I did for years), confusing "want" for "need," and "could" for "should." There are plenty of jobs, they just aren't the jobs you want. Do you want to continue to wrap your degrees and certifications around your sense of entitlement and starve, or would you rather be able to eat? Because it's decision time.

- Politics in this country has devolved into a watered-down version of the NFL, without the cool halftime shows, cheerleaders, or definitive end result. Two diametrically opposed points of view are at war in Congress: one side is uncharitable, greedy and short-sighted; the other, while sympathetic and generally kinder, commands about as much authority as a 7-year-old armed with a super-soaker in a shark tank. And sadly, neither side really gives a crap about YOU. They know full well that the longer they can go without compromise, the longer they can continue to argue pointlessly, sit in big leather chairs and collect a check.

If you want to do something to help - make sure your OWN house is in order first. Because Washington couldn't care less.

I'm not necessarily talking about hunkering down for tax increases from the big, bad democrats. I'm talking about something more basic. Like giving up $5 Starbucks lattes for the black sludge you hate at work. Like paying down credit cards. Like not trading in your current car for the latest Hybrid rip-off because it crossed the 100,000 mile mark.

It isn't easy, but it can be done. I wouldn't say these things if I myself wasn't trying to do the same.

TGIF.

Anecdote from a CVS

My girlfriend and I were at CVS waiting in the check-out line, and sitting in one of the chairs at the Pharmacy counter was a co-ed who had obviously just graduated from UNC. She was also talking on her mobile, at full volume, about every detail of her life for the last 3 days. At first i was annoyed. Then I began to feel like I was on some reality show and the camera was rolling. Maybe I am. "And OMG, do you know what she SAID about me? I was like, really hurt, you know???" I began to remember college. The more things change, the more they stay the same. She concluded her conversation with the following: "So then they played 'Carolina In My Mind', and like, I just lost it. OMG." They play that at EVERY UNC graduation. James Taylor was a UNC grad. No big shock. (Mr. Rogers spoke at my commencement, no lie. We all sang "Won't you be my neighbor." No one lost it, I don't think.) ...and the kicker: "So I was like, OMG college is over, what's left of my life?" LOL!!!! :) I wanted to grab her phone, point at the cashier - and the customer - and say, "Absolutely NOTHING. You're either going to serve, or you're going to GET served." JG